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那天晚上和朋友在深夜里
聊了足足两个小时的电话
谈论着她和她的男盆友
最近的感情的问题

很搞笑吧?
竟然咨询一个单身了 22 年的单身狗。。。
我也是不会了

电话中
她的语气流露了卑微和依赖
还有些许的不甘

。。。

她在她生日当天向男票提出了分手
或许
那将会是她记忆里最痛的生日

她连续的哭了好几个星期
睡不好
气色差

。。。

感情世界里
原本就是没有所谓的公平

我们不能够计较谁付出的比较多;
当然,
也不能够计较为什么得不偿失。

毕竟
这就是感情啊!
没有任何的尺能够衡量的东西

你心甘,我情愿。
没有谁 强迫谁
一切都是咎由自取

如果真的要怪
就怪自己爱的比较深吧。。。
爱的比较轰轰烈烈
爱的比较为他痴狂

。。。

在爱情的价值观里
人人都是傻子

如果在感情里过于精明
也只是自寻烦恼

因为你会开始揣测
并开始怀疑自己的另一半
开始不相信对方
开始杞人忧天

怀疑 又或者 庸人自忧
是一件很可怕的事

就好像之前的帖文里说的

“当情感控制了你的大脑,
你将会失去理智,失去冷静判断的能力。”

就算他微小的一个举动
都会让你彻底抓狂

你会变得有精神洁癖
就连一个 Instagram Story 的 view
又或者What's app 的 last seen
都会让你百读不厌
并陷入万劫不复的一抹死轮回

。。。

妖怪太强大
自己太懦弱
还需多多修行

。。。

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